Non-homogenous parties

# Chapter 353

We went to a party, and it was far less homogenous than most affairs we attend. It was great. Age range was mid-70’s to less than one year old. Different social-economic backgrounds, ethnicities and beliefs were all represented. It was far more representative of this fine country that we live in, than the groups and tribes we usually surround ourselves with, and it was educational. Meaning that we all are far more alike and far more different than we imagine, and that means we can have and find common ground if we choose, and we can argue about anything if we choose. And what a choice that is! It is one that we are making each day and that posture determines what kinds of relationships we have, and more importantly WHO we have relationships with in each stage of our lives.

This requires an exposure on our part, to be open in environments and with people who we usually aren’t hanging out with and who we aren’t seeking out on a regular basis. This is so healthy for us, yet it also is so challenging for us that we rarely if ever do it. I know that this was the first gathering of non-family or non-church that I have been to in years. Can’t believe I just wrote that sentence, but if I am going to own this then I am going to own this. I need these people and they need me. On the other hand, this introvert was worn out after a couple of hours hanging out! I am such a light weight, can’t handle all that much interaction with anyone at any time.